The day finally came. It is indeed unavoidable anymore. I myself cannot stand the situation any longer. The road to get there was quite serpentine until my friend made it straight to the heart of the problem. It was harsh. Unfortunately we didn't have any other ways to do that to make them both understand the gravity of the problem. She asked for a thinking time. Sure... especially since she looked completely surprised with what we said. She really didn't anticipate that. Subtly, I also saw a sense of denial coming from this brilliant person. She still couldn't get it? after all the blunt statements? quite impossible for a person of her caliber. The term 'denial' suits better, i guess. But whatever... Professionally i feel relieved that i have split things out. Though i regret that it should be done in such blunt statements. As a woman, i know this must be really huge to be the target of such blunt statements. But well... the truth indeed hurts, my dear...let alone since you don't have that discourse and strategic competences to understand the situation. Honestly i fear of losing the three musketeers more than having myself being hated by this smart person (and her friends).
Let tomorrow take care of its own troubles. I'm relieved i did what i had to do today, in that very meeting.
Monday, November 21, 2011
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