RESIGNATION

A friend of mine is resigning from our institution.
I got this news from D few days ago.
It shocked me.
no signs...no clues...
no complaints...
Well, i mean...usually you can predict if someone plans to resign from his/her job when he/she sometimes or often complains about his/her job.
I never heard such thing from him...
Well, yes... first, maybe because I am not working in the same department with him. Second, he is indeed quiet...(banyak omong nya cuma di kaset or CD)
I was really surprised...though I could guess the reason why...
Two days ago i happened to have him online. I asked him about the news. He told me where he's going and the reasons.
Honestly...i was really uneasy to get this news. It's not because we're going to lose contact or something. It's about me....
Why am I staying?
Can I do what he is doing now?
Should I ? or shouldn't I?
Can this institution still be the place where I could realize the dreams of my professional life?
or at least accommodate my self-actualization needs?
So many questions in my head...

And at the moment, I know exactly that at least two more friends of mine are considering doing the same thing...
Though i don't know yet their decision...I'm wondering...



P.S.
"wish you success om...
keep in touch!"